I strongly belive patience is must for success. why because i have seen lot of things in my life as well as with my friends and surroundings. In olden days people were waiting for lot many things like booking for bikes, booking for bus tickets as well as film tickets, for all that purposes they were waiting to get all that things. because of limited sources, options as well as processes were slow. but they were waiting to get all the things with lots of patience. compare to the past, present scenario is totally changed means most of innovations came into the picture. some of those innovations and improvements are very helpful, but few are reducing the person's qualities, we are hiding the person's original personality. previously people were waiting for getting bikes nearly 8 months to one year. but now no one is wating for bike or car not more than one week , one week also for their likes regarding bike color and new model. and regarding cinema or bus tickets previously people used to go and standing in the que then after few hours they will get the tickets but now they are booking the tickets through internet, i do not taking about these things are bad but i am convey the message as that people are very lazy about these things and they have lost the patience. why because i have seen one situation in the one TVS motor showroom when i was purchasing my bike one fellow came and ask that sales person i booked a bike three days back where is my bike but sales man told to that person small change is there in your bike it will take time another two days to come, so you can wait two more days sir, but that fellow start scolding on him why because that fellow told to his friend and to his girl friend i will get bike today he asked how should I face my friends. Now this is the scenario we are living that fellow is not able to wait for two days for bike how he will face the tough situation, if that person is not able to wait for bike how he can lead his life with success , and i have seen one more situation like i know one person he is my neighbour i dint mention his name, he completed MCA with good percentage but he dint get the job because of software recession he went for interviews two to three times that time he dint get the job so he felt sad he dint wait for chance he blame himself and he is scolding in his parents with out reasons why because he lost his patience he waited only two to three interviews he dint wait for one more interview. This is one more example we can see whenever and wherever patience is need for success. In previous days there are no private jobs they were waiting for government jobs they used to write exams not more than one time they used to write the exams two or more times till got the job. At that time opportunities are less population is more but they used to wait for days, months and some people were wait for years to get the jobs with lots of patience. Now opportunities are more and population also more as well as technology improved but people are not using in proper way. Because of lack of patience negative feeling will develop it leads to more complications in their life. and one more thing i want to discuss myself in this post when i went to annamalai university for giving a case study presentation, that time i felt very sad why because for that case study i studied a lot and i worked hard but i dint get the prize because of lack of communication (its all my mistake but i blamed others means i blamed my parents why because i came from telugu medium background so i cant speak in english properly, so at that time i think its all their mistake, but after few days i realised its another matter) at that time i felt very sad and depressed and i think my capability is this much only i dint do anything so this time on wards i should not participate any where, my thoughts are like that only why because its all lack of patience at that time i dint want to wait for another chance. After few days i realised that i had a confidence but only lack of patience that i can do because of my friend and my lecturer. They told me that you will have so many opportunities but you should use those chances in proper way definetly you will success in your life. After i listened what these people told to me i have been participating in any activity without getting prizes.
This is what I want to share my experiences and my feeling with you people. I hope you people take it in a positive way
Yours
Anusha.ch (always in happy mood)
